Why Relaxing Doesn’t Always Help Burnout

We’re talking about finding the balance between relaxation and effort.

In this week’s blog post, I’m diving headfirst into the world of sports psychology. Imagine you’re gearing up for the big game, heart pounding, adrenaline surging. But wait – relaxation is key, right? Yet, trying to force yourself into a zen-like state feels about as natural as riding a bicycle backward.

Let’s Start By Catching The Right Wave

Let’s catch the right wave of mental preparation, and ride it with finesse to reach the peak of athletic performance we aspire to. But first, let me share a little secret of peak performance with a sprinkle of humor and a dash of insight – because in the game of sports psychology, there’s more than just winning and losing.

Imagine trying to put out a wildfire by blowing on it with a straw – that’s what it’s like trying to force yourself to relax when you’re dealing with burnout as an athlete. It just doesn’t work! Burnout is like a big tangled knot that needs unraveling, and relaxation is just one piece of the puzzle. Instead of focusing solely on relaxation, athletes need to step back and untangle what’s causing the burnout in the first place. It’s like fixing a leaky boat – you need to find and patch up all the holes to stay afloat. So, instead of forcing relaxation, focus on finding the root causes of burnout and take steps to address them, one piece at a time.

When You See An Athlete On The Way To Burnout…

  1. Implement Rest and Recovery: Encourage & prioritize adequate rest and recovery in the training schedule. This includes incorporating regular rest days, ensuring sufficient sleep each night, and practicing relaxation techniques such as meditation or deep breathing exercises. Also, promoting a healthy work-life balance can help prevent excessive physical and mental fatigue if we’re talking about non-professional athletes.
  2. Set Realistic Goals & Expectations: Establish realistic and achievable goals that align with their abilities and aspirations. Unrealistic expectations can contribute to stress and burnout. By breaking down long-term goals into smaller, manageable milestones, athletes can maintain motivation and avoid feeling overwhelmed. Encourage focus on progress rather than perfection.
  3. Cultivate A Supportive Environment: Create a supportive team environment where athletes feel valued, understood, and supported. Encourage open communication and provide opportunities for athletes to express their concerns and seek assistance when needed. Coaches and teammates can play a crucial role in offering encouragement, constructive feedback, and emotional support. Besides, promoting a culture of positivity, and mutual respect can help alleviate stress and enhance overall well-being.

Three Ways To Prevent Burnout In Athletes

  1. Educate on Stress Management: Teach effective stress management techniques, such as mindfulness, time management, and stress-reducing exercises. Provide resources and workshops focused on building resilience and coping skills to better manage the demands of training and competition.
  2. Encourage Variety and Balance: Emphasize the importance of incorporating variety and balance into an athlete’s routine. Encourage participation in different sports or activities to prevent monotony and over-specialization. Promote diverse interests and hobbies outside of sports to cultivate a well-rounded lifestyle and reduce the risk of burnout.
  3. Promote Self-Care: Advocate for self-care practices that prioritize physical, mental, and emotional well-being. Encourage athletes to prioritize self-care activities such as adequate nutrition, hydration, and relaxation techniques. Emphasize the importance of listening to their bodies, recognizing signs of fatigue or overtraining, and taking proactive steps to address their needs. By fostering a culture of self-care and well-being, athletes can better manage stress and prevent burnout over the long term.

Until next week, listen to your body and let is speak to you, embracing the journey, embracing the challenge, and embracing the joy of being an athlete because we’re not a big community in this world.

4 Comments Add yours

  1. Steve Ruis says:

    Again, very good stuff. On a golf broadcaster this weekend a golf commentator (Brad Faxon?) said that golfs greatest champions (Jack Nicklaus, Tiger Woods) weren’t immune to elevated emotions when close to a win, they just knew how to handle (he said control, but . . . ) their emotions. Teaching competitors how to handle their emotions should result in much less burnout, no?

    Another commenter pointed out that golfers who play fast speed up when under pressure while golfers who play slow tend to slow down, Whoever first said “Know thyself,” certainly knew what he was talking about. BTW, golfers are taught to normalize their playing tempos through their walking speed. By monitoring one’s walking speed and correcting for “in game adjustments” due to pressure, they can more easily deal with the elevated emotions caused by getting near one’s goal.

    Since I coach an individual sport (archery) that doesn’t have a long coaching history, I gather a great deal of wisdom from golf, another individual sport.

    As mentioned, you are on a roll! (Are you setting up a post-competition career as a mental coach? If so, you are doing a great job of that!

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  2. Matt Michael says:

    Great article! Keep up the good work! I’m going to apply “Encourage variety and balance” today and lead it for my son. Good content!

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    1. Appreciate the feedback loads! Makes me so happy to read this 🙏🏼

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    2. Such a great response, thank you so much & I am so happy you can apply it. Please keep me posted on what strategies you’re using and if it’s working, I’m super curious to know how it goes! 😀

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